I'm learning to dance, (with God.) Dancing is all about following the lead...and when I learn to follow, to trust that He knows what He is doing-that's when I dance best.
It's when I trust and move with Him, to turn when He turns me...to do my basic steps... not to back lead (usually motivated by anxiety and insecurity or lack of trust) than the dance we dance together is beautiful.
There is a mutual creativity, a flow, an ease to the dance. People watching the dance will say, "Wow, she makes it look easy and He makes her look good."